How to Make Your Bedroom Look Aesthetic

Lenny Rhodes
Mar 27
4 min read

Updated: Apr 3

aka, how to turn your chaotic mess into a Pinterest-worthy retreat

Listen. Your bedroom is more than just a place to sleep - it’s the vibe-setter for your entire life. It’s where you start your mornings, end your nights, overthink texts, online shop at 2 AM, occasionally doom scroll to avoid responsibilities, and contemplate your entire existence. So, yeah, it should look good.

let’s be real - making your space aesthetic, but not try-hard is an art. You want that effortlessly curated, high-end-but-relaxed look that feels straight out of an Architectural Digest spread but still has personality. No cluttered boho, no sad minimalism. Just seamless, chic styling with a touch of vintage cool-girl energy.

The good news? You don’t need a celebrity designer or an unlimited budget to pull it off. You just need the right pieces - a mix of textures, statement finds, and those little details that make a space feel intentional. Here’s everything you need to turn your bedroom into the stylish retreat it deserves to be.

The Top Picks

Bedding: The Heart of the Room

If your bed looks bad, your whole room looks bad. I don’t make the rules. A good quilt cover is the easiest way to make your space feel cohesive, and the key is texture. This ruched, ruffled bedding set is that perfect mix of soft, romantic, and put-together without looking stiff. The neutral shades make it easy to build on with throw pillows and blankets, but it still has enough detail to look styled.

Decorative Pillows: Granny Chic but Make It Cool

Throw pillows are an elite way to add personality to your bed without committing to a full theme. I went for these slightly vintage, ruffled pillows in earthy colours because they balance the softness of the quilt with a bit of structure. And yes, they are absolutely giving granny chic, which is what makes them perfect. A mix of different shapes and textures keeps it from looking too curated - this is one of those things where “effortless” actually takes effort.

Lighting: Set the Mood

Lighting changes everything. Overhead lights are always way too harsh, so swapping in soft, warm lighting is a must. I picked a mix of paper lanterns, sculptural bedside lamps, and bold pendant lights because mixing styles actually makes the room feel cooler. You don’t need all of these (unless you want to live in a lighting store), but layering different types - like a floor lamp with a table lamp - instantly makes your space look well-designed.

Posters & Prints: The Cheat Code for a Styled Room

Wall art is the easiest way to add colour without committing. I love the mix of graphic prints, vintage-inspired florals, and coastal elements - this way, the room has vibe but isn’t locked into a specific theme. I went for muted but bold colors so they pop against a neutral room without being overpowering. Bonus: Swapping out prints when you get bored is way cheaper than redecorating.

Curtains: Floor-Length & Semi-Sheer, Always

Short curtains are a crime against interiors, and I stand by that. Floor-length, semi-sheer curtains make your room feel so much taller and allow soft, diffused light in (which is always more flattering than direct sunlight). I love how these blend into the room without looking boring - they add just enough movement to feel styled.

Bedside Table: Functional but Aesthetic

A bedside table that actually holds your books, water glass, and random trinkets but still looks good? Essential. This one gives major Scandi-inspired, mid-century vibes with the rattan panel, and I love that it has an open space to style books or a lamp.

Coffee Table Books: Not Just for Show

A stack of beautiful coffee table books instantly makes a space feel more curated. The key is picking books that actually interest you, so they don’t just sit there collecting dust. I went for a mix of art, fashion, interiors, and photography, with fun covers that also work as decor.

Smell: The Vibe Setter

Candles, sprays, and diffusers literally change the way your space feels. A warm, woody scent makes a space feel cozy, while fresh, citrusy scents keep it light and clean. Bonus points for candles in aesthetic packaging that double as decor.

Trinkets & Tinker Trays: Small but Essential

I will absolutely be doing a whole post on this, but the key to trinkets is picking ones that feel special, not just random junk that will inevitably end up shoved in a drawer. A cute dish for rings, a unique sculptural piece, or a little vintage find - these are the details that make your space feel lived-in rather than a Pinterest board come to life (which, let’s be real, is not always achievable).

Plants: Real or Fake, They Just Work

A big, leafy plant in the corner of the room? Instant life upgrade. If you can keep a real one alive, amazing. If not, no shame in the faux plant game. Olive trees, rubber plants, or a classic monstera are great for filling empty corners without adding clutter. Even a little potted plant on your bedside table or shelf makes a difference.

Style Guide

Keep in mind your bedroom should feel like an extension of you. It’s not just about making it look good, it’s about making it feel personal, stylish, and lived-in in the best way possible.

So take your time. Find pieces that feel right. Mix textures. Add personality. Play with color. And most importantly? Don’t try too hard. The coolest rooms look like they just happened - like they’ve been styled over time, not bought in one shopping spree.

And that’s the roundup - small tweaks that make your space feel effortlessly put together without the stress. Let me know what your favourites are (and if you also have an emotional support candle that you never actually burn).

And if you need help finding the best pieces to curate your space? I’ve already done the work for you. Check out my handpicked bedroom must-haves here:

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